concern

It seems that some people are concerned about what I am planning to do. There have been emails exchanged and I would like to say a thank you to those who are concerned about me, thank you for caring enough to express your worries.

perhaps I can put your minds at rest if I assure you that I have been in contact with a spanking group for their advice which has been gladly given. Today I have had a chat on the phone and spoken on msn with my partner in this adventure.

we have now given each other our written reasons why we are doing what we are.

this is part of what my partner says


First and foremost - I'm doing this as a friend. Not a lover, or a prospective lover, or a sadist. A friend. You say you want to experience something, and I can help.

Secondly - yes, it turns me on. But only if and when it turns you on.
If it stops being "pleasurable" for you, then it does for me too, and we stop

Thirdly - I want you to enjoy it, and to want more, on other occassions. So I'm not going to take you over your limits, because that would be self-defeating.

If we get it right, it will be an intense experience, especially for you. And I want to make that happen for you.

here is some of what I had to say

im doing this because I need to satisfy my curiousity. reading and thinking about it turns me on, as you know I have had various discussions with various men about this.
I prefer to do this with you as I know there are no ulterior motives, you know what you are doing we are friends who both care about each other's well being

the way I was feeling about satisfying my curiosity I would have found someone to do this with, its better someone i know and trust

I hope this has allayed any fears you may still have for me.