The truth about dating Plumber

Over on Lady in Red I posted a brief account of my second date with Plumber. I have been accused of not giving enough details. I know there are some who read that blog who would prefer not to read the details so I made the decision to keep my posts on there very vague. Anyone wishing to read more will have to come here.

The truth is that after our saucy encounter in his car in the pub car park we both knew that we needed more space and comfortable surroundings for our next date. Plumber did try to book a hotel room but was not immediately successful. He had been asked to house sit for a week so we agreed to meet at his house. I wasn't sure about this at first but as there was no other solution it was either meet at his house or wait indefinitely.

During our first passionate clinch in his car Plumber discovered just how wet I get, so this time he was prepared with a mattress protector and towels. We sat chatting and drinking red wine for quite a while then the kissing started. It was quite odd to think that I was fully dressed whilst he was only wearing a towel around his waist. I was beginning to get aroused now which became quite evident when I got up to use the bathroom,(leaving a wet patch on the sofa). It was time to go upstairs. Plumber undressed me, liking what he saw. We climbed onto the bed and continued kissing and exploring. Plumber took great delight in my breasts (anyone would think he had died and gone to heaven).

I told him it was time to lose the towel and believe it or not he agreed with me. Lots of foreplay followed, there was lots of licking and sucking from each of us. It felt very good to have a man working my labia with his fingers and tongue mmmmmmmm that was very good and even better every now and then he went back for more!!. Between bouts of cunilingus I gave him head. He has a very nice cock except that the head is rather large and it isn't easy for my mouth to stretch wide enough to get it all in but, get it into my mouth I did although there is no chance I can deep throat him. However he loved my attention on his manhood. We were both having a great time.

We decided that as great as the foreplay was we had reached the time for the real action that we had both been missing from our lives. He knelt between my thighs nudging my clit with his penis. He began to push forward, but all that happened was he slid off his target while I winced in pain. We tried several times in a variety of positions including doggy style but there was no way that his large head was going to get inside my tight cunt (even with extra lubrication). Unfortunately I had managed to cut myself shaving which was adding to the difficulties with the size. Obviously lack of use has had an adverse effect on my cunt. We gave up trying to fuck and just enjoyed being together.

It was lovely sleeping together, for both of us it was the first time for at least 18 months that we had slept with someone. The feel of a body curled up with mine through out the night was good. Neither of us slept particularly well but it felt good. In the morning we kissed and cuddled for a while then to my astonishment he dived under the covers to lick me out again. What a great way to start a new day. Unfortunately I wasn't able to repay him as the alarms we had both set were now going off and I had to drive the short distance home to get ready for work!

did we talk

I have been doing quite a bit of this since yesterday.

Vi says who is the lucky man

I take that to mean that she thinks I am smiling because I have had a nice fuck.
although I have had offers from several quarters I have only had one fuck in the last couple of weeks.

The reason I have been smiling is much simpler than that.
Last night I had a chance (although I almost missed it again) to chat to a special man.
did we talk about fucking ?
no
did we talk about meeting up?
no
did we talk about missing each other?
no
what did we talk about?
cold remedies
does it matter what we were talking about?
not to me
it only matters that we were talking to each other and it was an easy chat just like it used to be before sex got in the way.
I didnt say anything about the way he told me he was going away.
he didn't say anything about the sarcastic message I left when I first read his message.
we are ok :-)

Playground positions

today I read a post on another blog about playgrounds and the battles that are fought there, somehow I figure the inspiration for this metaphore may have come from a comment I made during a particular conversation. there has been some name calling, back stabbing and other childish squabbles and tantrums going on in blogland. battle lines have been drawn and friends drawn into taking sides.

I have no choice I am on this playground and I look around and see people hurting each other so unnescessarily. I could get drawn into being on either side but I have made a decision. I am going to stand my ground and state my position.

My position!! Over the past year since I started playing the field (I've moved from tarmac to grass now!) I have been asked so many times which is my favourite position. to begin with I couldn't really answer this as I knew only 2 positions (missionary and doggie). then as my experience grew there were other positions I couldn't begin to tell you their names. My education has come in two forms the first being hands on (ahem yes I did mean to say that) practical learning (kinaesetic) and the practice was very enjoyable....ooops I am blushing now. the second form my education has taken is visual learning. I have been reading blogs. some give amusing accounts of sexual encounters which have heightened my delight but others.(I really have to name drop here La Fille Marie and The Sensuous Libertine aka Cherrie) are much more educational in that the descriptions have been so enlightening that I can now honestly say I have been able to enjoy a much more varied sexual repertoire.

first the breath taking La Fille marie. At first when I began to read her blog way back in October 2006 I found her descriptions of her adventures awesome but couldn't see myself doing half of the things she has done. But gradually as the months have flown by (has it really been 8 months already?) I have taken her descriptions and put them into practice. It seems my enthusiasm and willingness to try different positions has made me very popular with the guys I have practiced with. Her journey into the realms of restraint have me hypnotised, her discovery of things such as nipple clamps had me quaking in my boots (high heeled black leather ankle naturally). there is just no way on this earth I would have clamps on my nipples. I hate pain and that would just send me over the edge. (says the woman who is planning to have her ass severely spanked then caned!! in the not too distant future.) This is not something I have reluctantly agreed to but something i have actively courted, begged for even. I very quickly became an avid reader of this awsome woman. One thing I just have not managed as yet is the reverse cow girl. The one time I did try this was with a man whose penis bent towards his navel(how naive I used to think they were all the same). my vagina could not manage to accommodate him in this position. Although I preceeded LFM into the world of sex with multiple partners simultaneously she has far exceeded my experiences. I had reached a stage where I was narrowing my range of experiences but reading her blog has re-awoken my interest in group sex most particularly in experiencing what it would be like to be with another woman, my experiences here were very timid compared to LFM.

secondly Cherrie, no one could read her blog and not learn something. Not only does Cherrie give very heart warming accounts of her own sexual exploits both now and in the past, with or without her husband, with men or women but she has much practical advice. Her friday Positions are always very helpful and inspiring. the research that goes into her writing is enormous. Her directions (no map book needed here) are impecable the pictures she chooses to illustrate her posts are enlightening. If you are ever bored and want to find new positions go have a look at her blog you are bound to find something you would like to try. It was also through Cherrie that I discovered one of the two favourite positions indulged in between myself and Mr Passionate is known as the 'Deep Missionary'.

Anyway I still get asked what is my favourite position? Still I cannot give an answer. Yes I have learnt lots of different ways of having sex. different positions different ways of giving and receiving pleasure. I enjoy so many positions how can I say which I prefer. that would be like asking which lover do I prefer or which colour shirt do I want to wear. On different days I am in different moods, I have different needs. Sometimes I am feeling lively and bright so I could wear a bright orange shirt (oops I am now). other times I am feeling mellow and would wear something pale (can't do that often most of my clothes are brightly coloured) then there are the dark days. Some days I need to be fucked passionately so I would need a lover like Mr Passionate (wonder why I nicknamed him that) or other times I would prefer a more sensuous session another time there is the gentle love making. There are of course lots of others in between. Maybe I should write myself up a menu of men to devour as suits my appetite. Maybe the answer is a buffet or chinese banquet (group sex) where I can take a bite from each dish on offer.

Do I have any favourite positions? yes I have several it depends on who my lover of the moment is. With Mr Passionate we try all sorts of positions but we both love the Deep Missionary with him kneeling before me with my ass resting on his thighs and my stocking clad legs in the air resting on his shoulders with the heels of my boots right beside his head as he thrusts deep inside my pussy. Alternately (and it was he who taught me to enjoy this) he loves to thrust deep inside my ass. I love the exsquite sensations this brings.with another lover our prefered position is for him to be on his back while I straddle him and ride forward cow girl. He rarely wishes to try any other position other than the giving and receiving of oral.Another lover prefers 69 with me on top of him sucking his cock whilst I grind my pussy onto his face.One lover likes to enter me from behind when we are spooning.with other lovers there are no particular favourites we just move from one position to another. I do enjoy the feeling of being able to participate or even control the amount of movement in some positions like missionary or cowgirl. I can change the speed or depth of thrusts. There are times when the deep missionary is good for being fucked hard and deep but there is very little imput I can contribute to this other than to just enjoy, the physical sensations of being filled so satisfyingly and the mental power of knowing that I can make my man want to fill me so deeply.

These days when asked which is my favourite position or what do I like to do first, I just say I follow the flow. each and every session is different, I just see how the mood takes us and what we want to do at any moment. Having a good fuck can't be choreographed. You are asking for an unsatisfactory experience if you try to do that. If the two of you are in tune you will just enjoy whatever position you find yourself in, your bodies will dictate not your brains.
Part of the pleasure is discovering the most satisfactory positions with your lover.